Have you ever been disrespected by the people around you?
What was your situation at the moment of insult?
Have you felt powerless in those situations?
If yes?
Then what if I told you that you can turn those insults to your advantage.
For that you have to accept some brutal reality of human interaction:
People love to insult someone who is doing better than themselves.
Your friends and society will always tell you to become a nice guy and always disrespect you.
They will tell you because they want you to always be behind them.
But the reality is different.
You can never live at your full potential if you become a nice guy.
When you see a guy who is being nice to everyone and a guy who does not care about anyone, you automatically realize that there is a massive difference between both of them.
I used to remember my days when I used to be nice to everyone but what I got in return was just shame and disrespect until I understood the psychology behind getting respect.
There is a difference of mentality which difference a boy from a man.
Because of that in this newsletter I'm going to go over 3 steps of human psychology which can transform you into a badass character whom everyone respects.
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​NO. 1 - Become mysterious:​
Silence is the no. 1 answer to deal with any insult.
As I have already told you about Miyamoto's philosophy that to make any person regret after insulting you shows them, you're unaffected.
People may disrespect you, but they cannot win until you don't give them your attention.
When you become mysterious you give yourself the ability to live alone.
When you start to live alone you stop giving your attention to the things which don't actually matter.
Being alone is a power which very few people can handle.
And once you learn to be alone you become mysterious.
And being mysterious is the no. 1 way to gain respect.
Because when people don't know about your next moves, they start to give you their attention.
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​NO. 2 - live like no one exist:​
That's the 2nd step of gaining respect.
In the world where everyone is chasing attention.
When you become a person who lives like no one exists you become unstoppable.
Focus demands distraction less mind.
And to master that kind of mentality you have to transform yourself into a person who works like no one else exists.
When you start ignoring people, they become confused.
They start to question what's wrong that you are ignoring them.
And that's a secret way to gain respect.
Everyone who has ever disrespected you, starts ignoring them for some time and you'll notice a huge change in their behavior regarding you.
They will start to give you attention.
And with their attention you'll gain respect.
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​NO. 3 - Purpose over everything else:​
Have you ever seen a man of purpose complaining about why others don't respect them?
Never.
You cannot see that.
Because a high value man have a purpose.
A purpose which is important than everything else.
When you have a purpose you don't waste your time trying to prove that you deserve respect or attention.
Because you accept that respect is just the outcome of the purpose you're chasing.
If your purpose is to chase girls, status or cheap pleasures then you have to forget about respect.
Imagine yourself becoming a person who is chasing a purpose of freedom,
You'll feel that most people have started giving you attention.
Because of that the respect you deserve will be just the outcome of what you're doing.